48 Personal Mysteries That These People Still Wonder About Years Later

Life is full ofmysteries. What is my purpose? What is the meaning of life? Where on earth did I leave my car keys? Somequestionswill never be answered, and we just have to accept that. But sometimes, it's hard not to put your detective's cap on!

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Redditors have recently beenrevealingall of thesmall mysteriesfrom their personal lives that have left them puzzled for years. From the case of the missing box of crayons to what their father did in the Vietnam War, there are plenty ofcuriositiesthat people desperately want to get to the bottom of. Enjoy reading through these mystifying stories, and be sure to upvote the ones that you'd love to solve too!

I had a one night stand. I found out many years later she had a kid just about nine months later. The girl looks like my other daughter to a T. I just have this weird feeling she's mine 😕 there doesn't appear to be a father in her life at all!

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I had a 64 crayola from first grade bought by grandma. If you had a 64 crayola, you are the "fancy kid" at school. So I brought my box to school to do some colouring and by afternoon, it was gone. I looked all over the classroom and went to the lost and found cabinet. Though there was a crayola box there, it had a name so it was not mine.The next day the kid next to me had brought a crayola box. I confronted her those were my crayons (because I could see her glaring at my box yesterday), and she claimed her mom bought it so it was hers. I never got my crayola box back, but I still have the gut feeling she stole it from me.

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My cousin's disappearance in 1979. He was in Kabul, Afghanistan when the Russians invaded and he hasn't been seen or heard from since.Official response from the US State Department: "We are boycotting the Moscow Olympics." .

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What my father did in the vietnam war. My sister and I know he was in the air force. He talked about mostly traveling, smoking and drinking beer overseas and how he was to tall to fly a plane. And how he joined the military to get away from his horrible family. Later in life he developed kidney failure, which eventually led to multiple organ failure, which is what got him at the end. He was on V.A. benefits, and had a military funeral. But we never found any informationNo pictures, no postcards, no information at all about just what he did.

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I lost my car keys when I was disc golfing when I was 19. I looked everywhere and eventually decided they were gone and had to call my mom, order a new set. It was a mess.I eventually found the missing keys two years later in my desk drawer at my house in college 100 miles away.

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Why my family lied to me about my dad passing of a brain aneurysm. I found the autopsy and police report in some boxes as an adult and he actually passed from brain trauma. He also went into a coma while sleeping next to my mom (they told me he collapsed in the middle of the day around people).So there is more to the story and it's bothered me a lot for the past ten years since I read those documents. But when I ask people about it they just say it happened 30 years ago and they don't remember. You don't remember if it was night or day time?

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The way individual socks just vanish into another dimension inside the dryer. I've lost enough pairs to start a textile factory in a parallel universe.

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I woke up one morning to 3 quarters stacked on the spoiler of my car. House located in the country with a long drive way and a dog who would have gone ballistic if someone had been there in the night. Still no clue who or how, but thanks for the 75cents I guess!My family also has chickens in a small coop behind the house, not visible from the road whatsoever. Woke up one morning to two additional full grown chickens in the coop. They had leg band identifiers that we don't use so they definitely weren't ours.

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One day I was walking up my stairs and saw a little square of white paper on one of the steps. It was about the size of a postage stamp. When I turned it over it was a picture of my dad when he was about 10 years old. My parents had lived in this house but it was over 30 years ago. We bought the house from mom after my father died.I showed the picture to my mom and she had never seen it before. To this day I have no idea where that little picture came from.

How tf I managed to win the race to the egg.

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What happened to my poor wee gorgeous, loveable black cat. I was away working, and she just vanished. Nobody seemed to have an answer for me, miss her heaps.

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A few years ago I was on the floor in front of my bookshelf. I think I was cleaning something up, I don't remember exactly, when something caught my eye. Sticking out maybe a half inch from between books was $200. All folded up, just chilling there.It was the second bottom shelf. No one had visited in months. It was barely visible. Where did that money come from?!

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Who made me an anonymous valentine's day card at school 30 years ago. I never could find out who it was!

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Who keeps stealing my good pens? They just vanish into thin air.

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Why am I me, as in why is my consciousness in this body and nobody else's?

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Still dont know why I get small scratches all over my body (when I say small I mean really small).

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What the actual thing is causing my seizures.

Where do all the hair ties go? I've raised two daughters and between the three of us I've bought more packs than I can count. Just poof.

Whether my grandad and my partners grandad knew each other. They worked for the same company, in the same place, at approximately the same time. Unfortunately I don't know of any way we can ever find out!

How to land a husband.

Back in the mid 1990's, I was at the grocery store with my dad and his girlfriend. As they shopped, I went to the magazine aisle, like I always did. There was a new edition of GamePro that had came out, and I was super stoked for it. It was the Donkey Kong Country premiere edition.I had saved up my allowance, and was able to buy the magazine.The grocery store, which was a Food Lion, was no less than two miles away from where I lived.I recall leaving the grocery store with the magazine in hand, getting into the car, still holding the magazine, arriving at our apartment, and getting out of the car, heading inside.As I got to the top of the steps, I realized "hey, I left my magazine in the car, let me run back out and get it." I dug through the car, literally tore it apart, and could not find it. This was on a Friday. I did this at least three other times, and never did find the magazine.I didn't roll the windows down on the ride home. The magazine was clutched in my left hand during the car ride home. All of a sudden, boom, it was gone.And now, 30 plus years later, I still recall this like it was yesterday. Never did find that magazine, and I was really bummed about it.

I lost my old slide phone in my 8x8 bedroom in my NYC apartment, and I never found it. There were no holes or unfinished areas where it could have maybe slid into the wall. It was just gone one day. I have since moved 3 times and have been through everything I own, but it's still a mystery.

Lost my favorite jacket in college and i've thought about it probably once a month for ten years. wasn't even that special, just fit perfectly. genuinely no idea what happened.

Who my double is. A few years ago I moved to the opposite end of the UK for a job and I apparently have a double. I've never met this person but I have been called the wrong name by strangers and had acquaintances ask me if I work somewhere I have never worked. My father fitted machinery in a local factory so I have a suspicion I have another half sibling.

When I was a child, I visited a dinosaur themed exhibit with very realistic dinosaur animatronics that scared the hell out of me. I recall the entrance was very cave like and was inside a white building. I've tried searching all over for such place that was active when I was a child probably early 2000s in Malaysia and I couldnt find anything. I would've thought I hallucinated it but I actually had a souvenir from the place. A pterasaur shaped eraser.

The first week my wife and I spent in our new house, I had a dream where I called a friend from college, Ryan, and we spoke.Two days later, Ryan called and my wife answered. He was shaken up. He said that his roommate gave him a message, "For Ryan," with only a phone number, no name. The mystery is twofold. We just got that landline number the day before (the day after the dream), and the call came in on his roommate's cellphone, which he had gotten that day. So there should be no way these numbers were known to anyone.

Oh my.....there are a lot of deep, personal answers to this and I was just going to talk about roads 😅😅But really - have you every thought about how many millions of miles of roadways were developed and paved across the USA alone? And in relatively short order? I mean, they work for years on a single 3 mile stretch if I-35 but somehow built out the US they way they did is just wild to me.

Why I have been sick since 2024. I have lost about 45+ pounds. No appetite, nausea, very watery movements, random fever, and so achy. Not to mention the new development. My entire rib cage is huritng. The mystery pain that started it is still there. My ride or die.I have been to my primary, 2 gastroenterologists and pain management. My primary keeps sending me to the gastro doctors. The first one told me it was Crohn's and the treatment started. But when I started asking questions I got this response: if the pain is that bad go to the ER.So back to my primary. Sent to a different gastro doc. One who specializes in Crohn's. Found out during that visit that I many not have Crohn's. It was listed as probable Crohn's. Oh and the pain is not related to the Crohn's. Go see a nutritionist and pain management. We will pop the camera back in and see what is happening.So I went to pain management while waiting for my colonoscopy. Pain management sent me home for being in TOO much pain. Yep, that is correct. I am one who does not 'show' pain. I just quietly go about my day. But you run my vitals, it shows. My BP was 200/143 and pulse was 170. Sir are you experiencing any numbness or tingling in your left arm? No, the pain is just bad today.Sorry but we cannot help you. We suggest you go to the ER or follow up with your doctor. With your vitals we cannot help. But I am in pain and this is because of it. They stopped listening to me at that point.So I have quit all of my treatments. I have been monitoring my BP and pulse at home. Nothing out of the ordinary to report. I am now focusing on making my life work around it. If I have to live with it, I will find a way.

My cat managed to remove the tip of his tail in an empty apartment, during the 5 min we were outside loading stuff into the rental truck. We came back inside to blood on the walls and floors, and he was hiding under the bed. The tip of his tail was near a door that couldn't have slammed shut (it was heavy and there wasn't any wind), and it was still as wide open as it was when we went outside.There wasn't any furniture in the apartment at that point. He wasn't even near the door when we brought stuff out, so we know no one stepped on his tail or shut his tail in the front door. He doesn't have extreme anxiety that would cause him to do that himself.Really baffled still. This was about 6 years ago.Biggie (cat) is okay, he just had a partial amputation and has coped reasonably well. Even the little grey tip appeared again once his fur grew back. 🙂.

Been trying my whole life to just see one photo of my mom's biological mother. That would mean the world to me if I could do that for my mom.

I have an indentation in my skull that doesn't belong. No one's telling me what happened.

When my partner and I moved into an old house, all of my brushes disappeared. My hairbrush, my makeup brushes, all of them. could not find them in our bathroom to save my life. A few weeks later, they all show back up in the places I had been looking for them (the drawers in the bathroom, on the countertop, in my makeup bags etc). Then about a year after living there a pink brush with gray hair in it shows up. no one in my family has gray hair. No one claimed the hairbrush. I even asked some folks who had visited us a few days prior if they had left it and they said no. Now I definitely believe in spirits. That house was 100% haunted (I have other stories on that), and I think whatever entity stole my brushes to begin with, felt bad and gave them all back with interest, so to speak. I have no idea where it got that pink hairbrush or why it chose that one specifically.

I lost an earring one night and I couldn't find it anywhere. Looked in my bed sheets, in the bathroom, everywhere. A couple days later I stepped into the shower and found the earring sitting at the bottom of the tub. I have no idea how it got there. Everyone in my family had showered several times between the time it was lost and found, so in theory it should have been washed down the drain or found by someone. I still wonder how it ended up there, although I like to think I had a friendly ghost helping me out.

Why people dislike or hate me for no reason.I may have thought they're keeping it a secret, but nobody bothers to tell me anything. They just leave me hanging, and I have no idea why. I would approach and ask why, but they don't bother, like I'm disposable.Same goes for my narc father and his mom. They just hate my existence, and even tell me I'm a mistake. Even on my grandma's death bed, she never apologized for abusing me, so I never got any answer from her.

Where all my money goes by the end of the month.

What happened to that one shirt of mine?

My biological dad abandoned my mom when he found out she was pregnant with me. I staged a surprise meeting when I was about 15? and it didn't go well.Always wondered why he left, especially after I heard that he left another woman who had a daughter that looks exactly like me.I've made peace with it but it's a curiosity I have.

I caught long covid before there were vaccines for it.I got sick for a year (so sick, I was afraid to go to sleep because I was afraid I wouldn't wake up.)A month after testing negative, I took my kids on a cruise that I had bought two years prior.Before I left, I took my grandmother's ring that I had inherited (and had always wanted,) and hid it somewhere that I wouldn't forget.I got back from the cruise, and it wasn't where I thought I had hidden it.I guess Covid has deleted the hiding spot from my memory.I have looked for it several times, but still haven't found it.This was three or four years ago.Sad.

Why I walk into a room and immediately forget why, is my brain playing hide and seek?

Where do all the spoons go?!? It's like they walk away.

Why everyone reveres my grandfather who committed acts of domestic violence so terrifying I don't even want to type them outnow he's old and has dementia, everyone has selective amnesia and treats him like a king.

One family mystery that still haunts me, my grandparents always argued about a letter from my great-grandfather that supposedly explained why he left town suddenly in the 1940s. Nobody ever saw it, and whenever it comes up, everyone shuts down or changes the subject. I've asked countless times, but the letter disappeared long before I was born. I keep wondering what he wrote and if knowing would change how I see my family's history.

Why I'm a morning person on weekends but physically cannot wake up on weekdays. Same body, same alarm, completely different results. Science has no satisfying answer for this.

When I was a kid we used to have day naps, but no one really slept. I remember some people were looking at us and then I immediately fell asleep for some reason… it scares me even now, not sure if I want to know what happened.

My grandfather sold a wine and spirits wholesaler business in the late 1920s. The mystery of what happened to the money has dominated my entire life. Equivalent today for about £1million. In the early 40s he died a penniless drunk. He had 2 sons (one my father) and a daughter. I once found the final ledger for the business which his daughter (my aunt) saved for the rest of her life. It confirmed the family rumour about how much it was sold for. Nobody knows what happened to the money.

Small one:I once misplaced an iPod nano and haven't found it yet. This was 11 years ago.Now I looked everywhere and moved since then, so the odds of me finding it are none-existant. It was probably stolen, or I dropped it somewhere, but my brain REALLY is telling me it's misplaced for some reason. I had it one day. And I didn't have it the next day. But I don't know which day that was.

This just happened today! I have video evidence!!!A flip flop materialised in front of my house and then landed on the drive, I swear no one was around to throw it and no bird seemingly to drop! My camera picks it up as if it had been thrown from my front door upwards but there is no one there to do it and no one who owns the flip flop.

I seem to be a pretty likeable person, I have friends in lotsa friend groups but I cannot for the life of me land me a partner or get a date! I have been told I have Aubrey Plaza energy so many times but yea...single for ages!

48 Personal Mysteries That These People Still Wonder About Years Later

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Urban salsa music pioneer Willie Colón to be remembered at New York funeral

NEW YORK (AP) — Family, friends and fans will gather Monday morning in New York to pay tribute to Willie Colón, the Grammy-nominated architect ofurban salsa musicand social activistwho died last monthat 75.

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A public funeral Mass will be held at St. Patrick's Cathedral in midtown Manhattan, following a weekend of private and public visitations. His burial will be private.

The trombonist, composer, arranger and singer died on Feb. 21. The cause was not publicly announced. His family said on social media that he passed away peacefully surrounded by relatives at a hospital in Westchester County, just north of New York City.

"While we grieve his absence, we also rejoice in the timeless gift of his music and the cherished memories that will live on forever," his family said in a statement.

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Bornin New York City's Bronx borough, Colón produced more than 40 albums that sold more than 30 million copies worldwide and collaborated with a wide variety of artists,including the Fania All Stars, David Byrne and Celia Cruz.

He was nominated for 10 Grammys and one Latin Grammy and was known for songs including "El gran varón," "Sin poderte hablar," "Casanova," "Amor verdad" and "Oh, qué será."

His manager, Pietro Carlos, wrote on social media that Colón not only changed salsa, but also "expanded it, politicized it, clothed it in urban chronicles, and took it to stages where it hadn't been heard before."

Colón was also a community leader who fought for civil rights, mostly in the United States. He further dabbled in politics, serving as a special assistant to New York City Mayors David Dinkins and Michael Bloomberg. In 1994, he lost his challenge to then-U.S. Rep. Eliot Engel in the Democratic primary.

Urban salsa music pioneer Willie Colón to be remembered at New York funeral

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Jury selection to begin in South Florida for 5 charged in 2021 assassination of Haitian president

MIAMI (AP) — Jury selection is scheduled to begin Monday in the U.S. federal trial of five men charged in the 2021 assassination of Haitian President Jovenel Moïse.

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Arcangel Pretel Ortiz, Antonio Intriago, Walter Veintemilla, Christian Sanon and James Solages are charged with conspiring in South Florida to kidnap or kill Haiti's former leader, plus related charges. They face possible life sentences. They all pleaded not guilty.

The trial was previously set for last year, but U.S. District Judge Jacqueline Becerra in Miami agreed to delay the case because of discovery challenges and the large volume of evidence.

Five others have already pleaded guilty in the conspiracy and are serving life sentences. A sixth person, who officials believe didn't know about the assassination plot, was sentenced to nine years behind bars after pleading guilty to providing body armor to the conspirators.

Moïse was killed on July 7, 2021, when about two dozen foreign mercenaries, mostly from Colombia, attacked his home near Port-au-Prince, officials said. Moïse's wife, Martine, was wounded during the attack and flown to the U.S. for emergency treatment.

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According to court documents, South Florida served as a central location for planning and financing the plot to oust Moïse and replace him with someone of the conspirators' choosing.

Ortiz and Intriago were principals of Counter Terrorist Unit Federal Academy and Counter Terrorist Unit Security, collectively known as CTU, and Veintemilla was a principal of Worldwide Capital Lending Group. Both companies were based in South Florida.

Sanon is a dual Haitian-American citizen who investigators say was initially favored by the conspirators to replace Moïse. Solages was a CTU representative in Haiti who coordinated with Sanon and others, officials said.

The conspirators met in South Florida in April 2021 and agreed that, once in power, Sanon would award contracts to CTU for infrastructure projects, security forces and military equipment, investigators said. Worldwide Capital agreed to help finance the coup, extending a $175,000 line of credit to CTU and sending money to co-conspirators in Haiti to purchase ammunition, officials said.

CTU initially retained about 20 Colombian nationals with military training to provide security for Sanon. But by June 2021, the conspirators realized Sanon had neither the constitutional qualifications nor sufficient popular support to become president. They then backedWendelle Coq Thélot, a former Haitian Superior Court judge. She died in January 2025 while still a fugitive.

Besides the 11 people arrested and prosecuted in the U.S., another 20, including 17 Colombian soldiers and three Haitian officials, face charges in Haiti. Gang violence,death threatsand a crumbling judicial system have stalled an ongoing investigation.

Jury selection to begin in South Florida for 5 charged in 2021 assassination of Haitian president

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Eva Mendes Shares Rare Picture with Ryan Gosling After Birthday Surprise

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Ryan Gosling and Eva Mendes seem like one of Hollywood's most solid couples, even though they keep most of their romantic life pretty private. They first sparked dating rumors in 2011 while filmingThe Place Beyond the Pinesand have been going strong ever since. Here, we look back at their connection over the last decade and beyond.

August 2011

The couple were friends for many years before they started dating, according toOprah Mag.

"We had known each other for a while already, so to work together was really exciting," Mendes said of filmingThe Place Beyond the Pinesin New York together. But soon, they seemed to be spending a lot of time together for just friends.

"There's always been this strong chemistry between them…this was just a matter of time!"saida source on set.

September 2011

In September of that year, the pair were seen smooching at Disneyland. An observer toldUs Weeklyhow flirty they were.

"They were very playful," they said. "Eva was skipping around like a little girl…She would lean into him and she held his arm the entire time."

October 2011

LikeZendaya and Tom Holland, Gosling and Mendes got busted while making out at a stoplight in Hollywood. Soon after, they flew out to Paris together.

June 2012

The next summer, the couple visited Gosling's native country, Canada, and spent time with his mother, Donna. Donna was apparently a big fan of Mendes.

"Donna and Eva get along really, really well,"said a source. "Donna wants Ryan to settle down, and Eva is all about getting him on that train too, so they're both on the same page."

Another source claimed that Mendes's family also gave the relationship the all-clear. "Eva says that's what sealed the deal with Ryan," the insider said. "They're going to make it."

September 2012

The Place Beyond the Pinespremiered at the Toronto Film Festival, and the couple posed on the red carpet together.

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They were also each other's date when the movie premiered in New York City at the Landmark Sunshine Cinema.

September 2014

Mendes gave birth to the couple's first child, their daughter Esmeralda Amada. Mendes had apparently not planned to be a mom, but that changed when she and Gosling got together.

"Then it made sense for me to have…not kids, but his kids," she toldWomen's Health. "It was very specific to him."

April 2015

Gosling's directorial debutLost Riverwas released, co-starring Mendes.

December 2015

Gosling made some rare comments about his relationship, saying in an interview withHello!magazine, "I know that I'm with the person I'm supposed to be with."

When pressed about what qualities he looks for in a woman he said the only quality he looks for is "that she's Eva Mendes...There's nothing else I'm looking for."

May 2016

The pair welcome their second daughter, Amada Lee.

September 2016

Marriage rumors swirl around the couple, andUs Weeklyreportedthat they'd had a ceremony with "a small group of family and friends."

Soon after,TMZrefuted the story.

In 2011, Mendes hadtoldChelsea Handler, "I'm not like anti-marriage or the institution, like for other people. And I love the idea of a union—that's all very beautiful. But I think, you know, it's a very old fashioned, archaic kind of thing. We did it for land originally. How unromantic is that?"

She added that it would be fun "to be with someone in your fifties and sixties and be like, 'That's my boyfriend.'"

January 2017

Gosling received a Golden Globe award forLa La Land, and thanked "his lady" for her support.

"While I was singing and dancing and playing piano, and having one of the best experiences I've ever had on a film, my lady was raising our daughter, pregnant with our second, and trying to help her brother fight his battle with cancer," Goslingsaid. "If she hadn't taken all of that on, so that I could have this experience, there would surely be someone up here today, so, sweetheart, thank you."

September 2019

Mendes toldAccess Hollywooda little about parenting with Gosling.

"It's so fun and beautiful and maddening," shesaid. "It's so hard, of course, but it's that that feeling of ending your day and putting them to bed and Ryan and I look at each other like, 'We did it, we came out relatively unscathed.'"

October 2021

Much like their relationship, the couple try to keep their kids out of the spotlight. Gosling is not active on social media, and Mendes has responded to people accusing him of not being an active parent because he doesn't appear much in her feed.

"I don't talk about Ryan and all the wonderful things he does as a father because I keep that part private," shewrote. "I feel it's best that I continue to disclose what I'm comfortable with but not involve him or my kids too much. It's not about being cagey or weird, it's just about staying private in a public space. Does that make sense? Hope so. Because this is my honest answer."

But Gosling did share a little bit about what it was like parenting under lockdown conditions from the pandemic.

"Our kids are young, so it was a tough time for them to be separated from other kids and not being able to see family and whatnot," Gosling toldGQ. "So, we did our best to entertain them."

May 2022

Mendes promoted Gosling's new movie,The Gray Man, sharing a poster for the film in which Gosling looks like an undeniable dreamboat.

"My man making all my 1980's action star dreams come true," she captioned it.

June 2022

She also got excited about Gosling's role as the iconic Ken in the Margot Robbie-ledBarbiefilm.

"So. F. Funny. So. F. Good. So F excited for you to see this..." she joked, hashtagging it #Thatsmyken.

November 2022

On November 15, Mendes shared her new inner-wrist tattoo on Instagram, a design that spells "de Gosling."

Mendes, who was raised by her Cuban parents in Miami, may be referring to the tradition of adding a husband's last name onto the woman's original name after their marriage, using "de" or "of." If Mendes and Gosling were married, her name could be Eva Mendes de Gosling. Fans took the tattoo as a sign that Mendes and Gosling are secretly hitched.

Mendes then made an appearanceon Australia'sKyle and Jackie O Show, where they naturally asked about the tattoo. Co-host Brittany Hockley asked directly, "There's a rumor that you guys might have secretly tied the knot. Is that true?"

Mendes replied, "But who says we weren't already? I like to keep it all mysterious. I'm a very mysterious woman."

About the tattoo, she said, "I do have a tattoo. It's just a press on…no, it's not a press on. But I got it years ago. I posted a picture, and I've gotten a lot of funny questions."

April 2023

Mendes explained why she and Gosling don't do red carpets together to a user on Instagram expressing hope that they would appear together on theBarbiepress tour.

"What a cool comment, thank you," Mendes replied, viaEntertainment Tonight. "But we don't do those things together. Like these photos I've been posting, Im only comfortable posting because it's already out there. ♥️."

May 2023

Ahead of the release of theBarbiemovie, Mendes shared a rare public tribute to Gosling, celebrating his role as Ken. She posted a photo of herself on Instagram, wearing a shirt with him in character on it. "Got that real big Kenergy. Coz girls is players too," she captioned it.

Goslinglater spoke about Mendes in his interview withGQ. He revealed that he never imagined himself being a parent until "Eva said she was pregnant. I would never want to go back, you know? I'm glad I didn't have control over my destiny in that way, because it was so much better than I ever had dreamed for myself."

Meeting Mendes genuinely changed the course of his life. "I was looking for her, you know?" Gosling said, adding he wasn't even fully aware at the time. "But it all makes sense now."

When parenting their two daughters, "I just lean on Eva [when I'm not sure what to do]. She knows what's important, always. She just somehow knows. So if ever I'm in my head about it, I just ask her."

June 2023

During his press tour in Canada for his new movieBarbie, Gosling shared what it's like to be the "Barbie dad" to his two daughters who apparently have "complicated backstories" for their dolls. On June 29, he shared that Esmeralda and Amada like to make up their own universe while talking toET Canada.

"Well, you have to know, my kids, their Barbies aren't even named Barbie," he explained. "They all have their own names, very complicated lives, backstories, interrelationships, history, you gotta know it all."

He joked that when he jumped into play he was informed the dolls were "estranged now" and that "it's like, 'Get out of here.'"

"They don't even talk!" he added, explaining that in his daughter's Barbie world, Ken has been demoted.

"He works at a grocery store; he's not a fireman," Gosling said.

July 2023

Gosling wore a tribute to Mendes at theBarbieLos Angeles premiere: an "E" necklace in the Barbie font. He spoke toEntertainment Tonightabout how the couple's daughters influenced the way he played Ken.

"They've seen a lot pieces of [the film], and helped me a lot with it," he said. "They were huge inspiration for me." He also added that he may wait to take them to see the movie: "Well, it was, I think, weird enough for them that I played Ken anyway. I might like, you know, just hold off on them seeing the full Ken energy."

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On Friday, July 14, Gosling shared more about his family in an interview withPeople.

"I think they're confused as to why I would want to play Ken," he said. "They have no use for Ken."

Gosling went on, "My kids were my introduction to [Barbie]...My kids were around for the months at home, as I was prepping for it. So they, inadvertently, were prepping for it too. And they came to set that day and were a huge sense of support and doing it with me off-camera."

August 2023

On Thursday, Mendes posted a short video clip of herself on Instagram, captioned, "When my kids ask me if they're old enough to go on the internet, social media or anything requiring Wi-Fi."

In the video, she is shaking her head and waving her hands in a very clear "no," because she apparently tries to keep her two daughters off the Internet. In the comments, Mendes responded to her followers, explaining why she and Gosling are so strict.

First, someone wrote, "Your smart @evamendes. I have limited it a lot for my now 10-year-old but feel like your way is better."

She replied, "I'm just sharing what I feel now, but I know it's gonna get harder as they get older. So, I hear ya, mama. I let my kids use the iPad to make movies and watch films I've downloaded, but I don't have internet access on the iPad. Lotsa love your way, fellow mama!"

A second comment said, "We are in the internet century, so eventually everyone will need or want to access the internet, sorry."

"Yes, true, but in my house, children do not have access to the Internet," Mendes answered. "It's too dangerous. Just like drinking or voting or getting a driver's license (etc.) isn't allowed for children, the Internet falls under that category for me. Especially social media."

One fan asked, "At what age do you think you'll allow them to use [the] internet/social media?"

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She explained, "Honestly, I don't know. I'll have to see where it goes. For now, I'm observing them and keeping up with research about how social media can impact a child's brain. I'm taking it stage by stage."

December 2023

Gosling released four new renditions of hisBarbieanthem "I'm Just Ken" with musical artist Mark Ronson. Mendes was ecstatic for her husband and shared several clips on Instagram.

"So grateful to @iammarkronson for getting my man to make more music," she wrote, adding, "Dead Man's Bones is my favorite band… when I first heard Ryan sing, MY HEART EXPLODED...More Ryan & Ronson música por favor!"

Dead Man's Bones is the name of Gosling's former rock band he founded with Zach Shields in 2009.

In the comments, fans were almost as excited, asking Mendes not to refer to her husband as "my man," but instead "our man."

She was surprisingly willing to comply, saying, "You're right! Our Man. It'll never happen again. Merry Christmas! Lots of love!!"

Another fan commented, "THIS IS AMAZING!!! And damn, @evamendes your enthusiasm for your man is beautiful and electric. I love it!"

Mendes used the comment as an opportunity to gush about him even more in response.

"Thanks for saying that. I'm his number one fan, clearly," she joked. "But it's so much more than his talents. If he wasn't such an amazing man to me and [an] incredible father to the kids—trust me—I wouldn't be praising him like this! Happy Holidays to you. Sending you lotsa love!"

January 2024

On Saturday, January 13, Goslingacceptedthe Kirk Douglas Award for Excellence in Film at the Santa Barbara International Film Festival. While giving his speech, he made sure to mention Mendes and their two children and how movies gave him his family—he did meet Mendes on set, after all.

"Most importantly, I got to meet the girl of my dreams, Eva Mendes, and have two dream children," said Gosling. "I dreamed of one day making movies, and now, movies have made my life a dream."

One week later, the Academy announced this year's nominees for the Oscars, and Gosling received a nomination for Best Supporting Actor for his role as Ken inBarbie.On January 24, Mendes took to Instagram to post a supportive tribute for her husband.

"So proud of my man. So much hate when he took on this role. So many people trying to shame him for doing it. Despite all of the #Notmyken ridicule and articles written about him, he created this completely original, hilarious, heartbreaking, now iconic character and took it all the way to Oscars," she wrote in the caption along with a screenshot of aRolling Stonesarticle calling Gosling "cringe" for accepting the role. "So beyond proud to be this Ken's Barbie 💕."

February 2024

A source spoke toUs Weeklyabout Gosling and Mendes's life together. "They are trying to keep their daughters' lives as normal as possible and don't want them growing up in Hollywood," one source said.

Both are supportive of the other's career too, a second source said: "Ryan always encourages Eva to pursue the projects she believes in and gladly steps up to the plate to take care of the kids whenever she needs."

With their daughters, "he reads to the kids, takes them to games, puts them to sleep, cooks their dinners—everything, really. He devotes almost all his time to his family. He enjoys taking care of the girls and spoiling Eva, too," that source said.

That second source shared a bit about their dynamic as a couple: "Ryan loves to cook for Eva, and once the kids are asleep, they'll enjoy one of their favorite shows together." While they will sometimes go out for date nights, "[they] prefer hikes and trips to the beach over fancy restaurants or a big party," the insider finished.

March 2024

Mendes supported Gosling backstage at the Oscars, sharing two Instagrams of herself there. "Always by my man," she captioned her first one.

"You took Ken all the way to the Oscar's, RG," she wrote in her second. "Now come home, we need to put the kids to bed. 💋"

On March 11, a source explained toPeoplewhy Mendes and Gosling moved their family out of Los Angeles.

"For them, the most important job is their girls," the source said. "Everything else comes second. And their girls are thriving. They left L.A. to live a bit further north, away from Hollywood. They didn't want the girls to grow up around other celebrity kids."

They added that "Eva and Ryan love their life. It's admirable how they've been able to create balance and boundaries. They care so much about their marriage and just want their girls to live a happy life."

Gosling gave an interview toPeopleon March 12 where he revealed that Mendes did not attend the Oscars but a dress rehearsal for it with their daughters.

"It was great," he said. "It was so fun because they came to the dress rehearsal the day before and so they were in the front row. They gave me some tips and some notes, all great notes. They are such a huge part of this for me...it was my girls' interest in Barbie and disinterest in Ken that got me into this in the first place. It was beautiful to have them there at the end."

On Thursday, March 14, after showing so much support for her husband, Mendes posted about getting some time for fun at Milan Fashion Week. It was her first time attending since the birth of her kids. In a short video she posted of herself enjoying "La Dolce Evita," Mendes thanked Gosling for stepping up as a parent so she could take a break.

She started by saying her looked was "made possible" by fashion house Dolce & Gabbana, her stylists, and "by my man for holding down the fort at home so I could live the Dolce Evita for a couple days."

A few weeks ago, she also offered a glimpse of what fashion week can be like behind-the-scenes, trying to get a snack in between shows.

Later in the month, Mendes spoke about life with Gosling and their two daughters onThe Today Showon March 26. She opened up about her decision to step away from acting after having children.

"It was, like, a no brainer," she explained. "I'm so lucky, and I was, like, 'If I can have this time with my children.' And I still work. I just didn't act because acting takes you on locations; it takes you away. It was almost just, like, a non-verbal agreement that it was, like, 'OK, he's going to work, and I'm going to work, I'm just going to work here.'"

The actress also reflected on her time working with her future husband onThe Place Beyond the Pines.

"I have never experienced anything like that. The way he works, his commitment to his craft, how he wants to make everything as best as it can be, and that means making his co-stars as best as they can be," she shared. "But unfortunately—or fortunately—there is only one Ryan."

May 2024

While Gosling and Mendes typically keep their relationship relatively private, they each opened up about their lives together while doing press.

In conversation withPeoplefor the Beautiful issue, Mendes praised Gosling for being so supportive, saying, "He's got me in all the ways."

Because of his support, Mendes was able to step away from acting to raise their two daughters, Esmeralda Amada, 9, and Amada Lee, 8.

"It was the easiest decision I've ever made," she opened up."I was older, and I knew that my kids are going to be little once, and whatever I do or don't do right now is going to affect them the rest of their life."

"Your career comes and goes, but kids, yeah, that was easy for me. They're just formative years. I wanted to be there for all of it," she added.

Mendes also shared that Gosling is the chef of the household.

"I'm not a cook, so my man cooks and I clean, so it's a nice even. I can't cook. You don't want me to cook," she joked. "My girls, they're so cute, but they're like, 'Did you make these eggs, mama?' I'm like, 'They're eggs, yes. They're just regular eggs.' Who messes up eggs?"

Gosling even supports Mendes through his work. When promoting his upcoming film,The Fall Guy, onHits Radio,Gosling actually wore a T-shirt that read"Desi, Mami, and the Never-Ending Worries,"which is Mendes's new children's book. He also spoke about her book withExtrawhile on the red carpet ofThe Fall Guy's L.A. premiere.

"It's a wonderful book. It's also in Spanish. I highly recommend it," he said.

The interviewer asked Gosling if he thinks the story is a tribute to him and his children with Mendes, to which he replied, "I'll let [Eva] speak for it. It's such a beautiful book, it's been a few years in the making. We read a lot of kids' books, and it's one of the best I have read. It's really about something and beautiful."

As for Mendes, Gosling toldExtra, "She is with the girls, and when she works, I stay home with the girls, too. I couldn't be here without her."

"She's also like my acting coach," he added. "She has really become the best acting coach I have ever had. It's endless how much she helps me."

August 2024

The couple brought their daughter to watch the Women's Uneven Bars final at the Paris Olympics on August 4. Goslingworea green Olympics hat and plaid shirt, and Mendes was in a sleeveless black shirt and white sunglasses. They were alsoseenat the Palace of Versailles for an equestrian event, where Gosling wore a white baseball cap, and Mendes wore a straw sunhat.

September 2024

Mendes spoke onGood Morning Americaabout how working with Gosling led her to quit acting, perhaps for good. She was asked if she'd take up the profession again now that their daughters are a little older. "I don't know," she replied, viaEntertainment Weekly. "If there—you know—if there's interesting roles. I kinda felt like I did it, ya know? I was like, I just worked with Ryan Gosling, who's, like, the best. And I had such a—I don't know—it was such a high off my career to work with him and what we created together that I was like, 'This is a good time to justSeinfeldit and just walk out.' So, who knows?"

October 2024

Mendes spoke toThe Sunday Timesabout how Gosling changed the way she sees herself. She first shared that she would only return to acting if it was a project with her husband: "That's the one thing I would love to do."

Later in the interview, she spoke about how Gosling has shaped her view of herself. "I feel really fucking hot at times," she said with a grin. "The way my man looks at me is just…at times I'm like, oh my God. That might not sit well with people, but so much of how I feel is a reflection of what he's giving me."

She added, "There's so many things that can make me feel hot, and I'd say that I feel more hot than not. I guess because I've never considered myself beautiful, but I've always felt very hot."

April 2025

On April 11, Mendes shared a rare post on Instagram about Gosling to celebrate his latest cause. The carousel of pictures showed the actor promoting his filmThe Fall Guyand pushing to get the Academy Awards to add a category for stunts.

"My man is the F best!" she wrote. "Unfortunately, success is almost only measured by box office. So I'm extra proud of my man for turning his entire Fall Guy press tour into a campaign to get stunts recognized by the Oscars. And now after Almost 100 years of stunt design not being acknowledged by the Academy, it's officially a category!! This is a HUGE success! And an achievement that will last. Congratulations to the incredible stunt community!!"

She added jokingly, "BTW, this is the last time I post a pic of my man and the total babe that is Emily Blunt. No más!"

November 2025

Mendes shut down rumors that she and Gosling had relocated to London with their two daughters. In a November 3 Instagram Story, the actress reposted a screenshot of aDaily Mailarticle and wrote, "WRONG again @dailymail. Although I love my time in London, I can't wait to get back home and celebrate the @dodgers World Series championship!" She added, "Go Dodgers!!!"

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February 2026

In an interview withAccess Hollywoodabout his film,Project Hail Mary, Gosling made rare comments about his kids and shared that they view his work.

"My kids have seen multiple cuts," Gosling said. "They give me multiple notes. They're basically the only critics I care about, and they are very critical and very honest."

He added that their opinions are "always better," and they inspire his work.

"I made this for them essentially," Gosling continued. "As a family, I'd like a movie like this that I'd like to see. I just feel really honored that I got to make one."

March 2026

Mendes joined Gosling onstage during hisThe Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Falloninterview on March 5, marking their first official public appearance in more than a decade. During the episode, Gosling surprised Mendes, who had been watching the interview backstage, with a birthday celebration.

Before she came out, Gosling joked to the audience, "Here's the thing, you might find me in the Hudson River tomorrow."

When Mendes was alongside him and Jimmy Fallon, she playfully asked the host, "You'll cut all this, right?"

She and Gosling held hands as the audience sang "Happy Birthday" and a marching band performed for Mendes during the surprise grand gesture.

On March 7, Mendes shared a black-and-white photo taken on The Tonight Show set, thanking and threatening Gosling in equal measure.

She wrote in the caption, "A huuuuge gracias to @jimmyfallon and @nbhs_bruins marching band. What a beautiful memory. And a special thank you to all the educators in the audience. We need you now more than ever. Lastly, my man ….i'll get you back for this. ♥️"

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Actress Jennifer Runyon has died at the age of 65

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  • She was best known for her roles in Ghostbusters and Charles in Charge

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Jennifer Runyon, an actress known for her roles inGhostbustersand the CBS sitcomCharles in Charge, has died at age 65.

Runyon's family confirmed her death in a social media post on Sunday, March 8, according toABC7 Los Angeles.

"This past Friday [March 6], our beloved Jennifer passed away. It was a long and arduous journey that ended with her surrounded by her family," the post read. "She will always be remembered for her love of life and her devotion to her family and friends. Rest in peace our Jenn."

Runyon's friend,Bewitchedalum Erin Murphy, also confirmed her death in aFacebook poston Saturday, March 7, writing that she had "a brief battle with cancer."

"Some people you just know you'll be friends with before you even meet. She was a special lady. I'll miss you Jenn. My thoughts are with your family and beautiful children," Murphy, 61, wrote.

Steven Tash, Jennifer Runyon and Bill Murray in 'Ghostbusters' (1984)Credit: Columbia Pictures / courtesy Everett Collection

Born in Chicago on April 1, 1960, Runyon later married collegiate basketball coach Todd Corman. The couple welcomed two children together, a son named Wyatt and a daughter named Bayley.In 2014, Runyon stated that she was semi-retired from acting and was instead working as a teacher, according toVariety.

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Her daughter, Bayley, an actress who has appeared in episodes of9-1-1, Chilling Adventures of SabrinaandJane the Virgin,also shared a tribute to her mother onInstagram, writing: "all of the best parts of me came from you. i would give anything for one more day together."

"the kindest most compassionate person i've ever known. my best friend. i wasn't ready for this," she added.

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Runyon made her feature film debut in the 1980 slasher movieTo All a Good Nightand had supporting roles in the 1984 filmsUp the CreekandGhostbusters, in which she portrayed a student undergoing a paranormal assessment in an iconic scene withBill Murrayand Steven Tash.

She also starred in the 1984 sitcomCharles in Chargeand had a number of other film and TV roles in the 1980s and 1990s, including taking over the role of Cindy Brady fromSusan OlseninA Very Brady Christmas,as well as appearances inThe Fall Guy, Boone,The MasterandQuantum Leap, according toDeadline.

Runyon also made guest appearances on series includingMurder, She Wrote,A Man Called SargeandBeverly Hills, 90210.

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